I'd say the flags couldn't be any REDDER!!! (That's not a word, I don't think?) Anyway, please stop and listen to yourself. This is NOT the man for you!! You deserve better and you would be settling. Don't let things go any farther!!! Break it off saying you are just not ready for an intimate relationship at this point in your life. I would then Not be super friendly and lead him on...he is still going to be after you for sex, that we already know!!! RUN RUN RUN!!!