Hi I'm new here 21 with a 2 year old son who is my world. I have been dealing with my boyfriend for 6 years on and off who is my sons father. I will add before I go on I'm not sure how to use this site. But my boyfriend I feel has emotional problems shows emotion when he wants and when he doesn't want to just shuts it off. He leaves and comes back and hurts me a lot. He isn't much of a father he sees him and plays with him but doesn't understand that there's more to being a boyfriend and a father he's very immature I just need to help him or leave and why leave if I love him and my son obviously has to see him I would never take that away but I need help.