BTW, one of my Indian friends (let's call her Anjuli) was a self-admitted flirt when she was younger and lived in India. She said all the boys would like her company (not her "company" --- she might have slept with one or two people) but that her biggest fear was that none would marry her because of her past.

Anjuli told me that many of them felt exactly that same way. She still had fun going out and dancing or drinking, which I guess was scandalous. But she knew that it might limit her choices. Well good for her, eventually she met a few kind, open-minded gents (in India) who were confident in themselves.

The one she married happened to own a leather factory. He and I are good friends. Over a scotch, he told me the reason he asked Anjuli to marry him was because she wasn't afraid to be herself.

In fact, she chose him. No relationship is perfect, but only you can decide what you're willing to accept. And that has to be done without the input of the person you're going to be with. I wish you confidence.