Hi everyone

I just found this forum today and I would really like some honest opinions. I have a husband that leaves for days when we argue and never calls or answers my calls. He also always says he has had it and wants a divorce. This is very hurtful to me. Let me tell you what happened yesterday. We got into an argument about how long to put our 2 year old in time out. I said only 2 minutes and he wanted to keep her in there for a long time because she is throwing tantrums and hitting and what we are doing is not working in his opinion. I just believe that she is 2 and this is normal behavior. Anyways the argument escalated and he said he is leaving for two weeks and we will discuss us being married when he gets back. I don't believe ha is cheating. He has a job that he travels a lot for. My question is. Is this behavior something I should just learn to live with or get out and also when someone threatens divorce do they really mean it or is it just a control issue. I don't want to break up my marriage but in my opinion leaving without contact and threating divorce is unacceptable behavior. I know this is not a trait that is going to change in him.