thanks, friends. i'm about to collapse. it is PTSD and a lack of properly trained professionals to help those who have come home. the details are truly too much to disclose here, but he went through some really awful things while there.

he is not the man that went over there.

he doesn't have the family support that my daughter has. just us for him and it's hard for him to open up anyway......childhood issues. i really need help getting to a point where i'm not on the verge of giving way. i am so worried about all three of them.......love, pat