I can understand why it would make you feel bad if your therapist is doing those things for your friend and not for you. However, since several people and you said there were already bad enough problems with the therapist that you're intending to leave, I think you're probably better off without those things from this therapist. It also sounds like your therapist was extremely careless about your friend's situation if your friend was forced to walk home in a dangerous area at night because the therapist ran over. from the way you wrote about it, it sounded like it would not have been your friend's preference to go 40 minutes late. Did I understand that right? What does your friend think about the therapist?