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jlove973 said:
A pregnancy can due alot to a woman. How was the relationship before your son was born? Do you think that is important to take in consideration? I hope to here from you.

I wish the best for you!

Jlove

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I do take into account the pregnancy, and it has certainly exacerbated the issues we have between us - but they did exist before he was born.

The real problem is from talking to her I don't feel she is willing to even compromise. For those things she admits need attention, there is a lack of will to fix them, so I just don't know where this will end up.

I've personally made a new patient appointment for the end of this month with a marriage/family therapist. My work schedule allows me to go without telling her about it... and I may not for a while. She's not been very receptive to therapy in the past and right now may not be the best time to deal with a new headache.

In the mean time I'm hoping to find some peace of mind.. maybe.

-C