My T has actually used the phrase that hope-full used: "What's fair isn't always equal, and what's equal isn't always fair." It might not be the best idea for you and your best friend to see the same T. Anyway, I'm sure my T had done more for other clients than me, and I know that she has done things for me that she has not done for other clients. I know that I don't treat everyone the same in my job. All people are different, and all situations are different. I will also agree, though, that going over by 40 minutes is odd and a lot to me.