Thank you for such kind, gentle and truthful words. I have stopped trying to contact him, for a good few days now.The funny thing is that I am the most level headed, sensible, consistent person and yet his silent treatment brings out a side of me which I really don't like - it is not who I am. I feel sad that I have been there to see him through many trials over the past years, yet whenever I need someone, he is just not there.And he "picks up" with me after a while as if nothing has happened....

I DO believe that emotionally he is very immature and I know a lot of it has to do with his childhood...but I can't be the "punching bag" just because he feels secure that I will never let him down(because I have never done that to him in the past, I have always been loyal).

I DO deserve better...it's just to move past the pain of the moment, and that still stings.