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Originally Posted by gibbymommy
Thank you for your words. It's not just that it is hurtful but also I am a stay at home mom (in the process of looking for a job). The fear if him actually leaving is also big because I depend on him to support us. It would be less scary if I knew he was just "blowing smoke" but I never know if this is the time he will really do as he says.
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I understand your fear, but when you get a job of some kind, you will find hope again. I know because I am a stay at home mom too, but I volunteer on Sundays to get some kind of experience under my belt. All you can do is wait and see if he is going to do as he says. If he does, contact a social worker and see if you can get on TANF or some other kind of welfair. You don't have to be on TANF or welfair forever. Just until you get on your feet.