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Originally Posted by Diesel83
Hi there. i am not sure how to go about this. I am not one that talks easely about feelings. I have been married 2 and a half years with a wonderful woman. There is no fights or any issues that I can think about and I do love her alot. My problem is I have known a lady for a couple of years and we have been very good friends. Nothing has happend between us except we can talk and I trust her alot. It has come out that we are attrackted to one another. For the first time I find myself in love like a school kid. I can not stop thinking about her. If I do not hear from her I am sad and depressed if i see her i get butterflies.
I really dont know what to do about this.
How do i get myself to get back to the friends only fellings?
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If you find the answer, let me know. I'm in the same situation. I've been friends with this guy for a couple of years. We are the heads of a volunteer organization so we work closely together and have shared experiences and frustrations. We share rides a lot so we talk and, like your situation, discovered that we were also both attracted to each other. We have taken it a step further than you and your friend though and I have tried to stop multiple times. I finally told him last weekend that we had to stop. He supports me and wants to stay friends. It's been 2 days and it's so hard to only talk about our volunteer work. He knows more about me than anyone else and he's been my go to person for when I have my melt downs. I don't want to lose our friendship. I don't think it's possible to not have the feelings that I have for him. Right now I'm concentrating on making myself stronger and not having to rely on him. Good luck.
