Ok so my boyfriend and I been together for 6 years now we have a two year old son he loves us but really never wants to spend time with us. Like he'll make up excuses we break up on and off so much and I don't want a boyfriend who I feel like I'm bothering and doesn't want us around. He'll break up with me and is fine with it and he only wants to see his son 13 hours a week and then when he wants to come back he'll come back Crien and begging. He really acts like he doesn't care about me but yet when were not together he's better towards me then when we are. I feel like I'm a bother to him but yet I no that he loves me and our son. Sometimes he'll say he wants to be alone but yet doesn't mind always being with his friends. He's still so immature also and that doesn't help but I'm over going out and drinking I want a family but yet we still don't do a thing as a family. He never wants to sleep at my house because we don't live together with live with our parent and when he wants us there it feels like its cause he has to be with us and well sleep there other times I feel all the love and other times I don't. It's like the first days we get back are awesome then he's over it. I just don't no what to do is there anyway to help change his ways maybe if I act differently instead of being Always there at his every beck and call and this great girl who never does much to him I don't no I need help looking for some help from someone who know a lot about relationships.