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Originally Posted by gibbymommy
My question is. Is this behavior something I should just learn to live with or get out and also when someone threatens divorce do they really mean it or is it just a control issue. I don't want to break up my marriage but in my opinion leaving without contact and threating divorce is unacceptable behavior. I know this is not a trait that is going to change in him.
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Threatening, and not following through is a 'control' issue. Running away, because times get hard, that could last a lifetime, without setting boundaries, that may include you walking away from the whole thing, next time he does that.
And fyi, I was under the impression, that it was 1 minute per age, for time-outs, as a standard time table.