I previously wrote a post about my boyfriend and I and how my boyfriend seems to want to have sex a lot more than I do... practically every time we are alone or in bed.

This is my story that happened tonight:

I had a job interview down by where he lives so I stopped by afterwards to see him and we got lunch at a restaurant. On the drive back to his place we both agreed on a time that I should start heading back to my town because its 50 minutes away and I needed to be at my best friends house by 8 because it was her birthday and her mom was making a cake. We both agreed that I would leave by 6:30 because I needed to get home and change.

When we got back to his place, my head was hurting pretty bad so we took a nap for 45 minutes and woke up at 6:16. I told him that I should start getting ready to go and as I tried getting out of bed, he hugged me and said, "How about we make love now?"

I told him, "No, im sorry... I really need to get going." - I did this in a sweet voice/tone... not at all a hurtful one.

He said, "Thats not a good excuse." So I told him, "I'm sorry but I'm also not in the mood.. " He then tells me that it wasn't nice that I told him No because I needed to leave and proceeds to tell me that I am giving my best friend more attention than I am to him. (Let me tell you, I spend most of my time with him. Thursdays through Sundays I am with him the whole time because he has class the other days. I made a visit to him today-Tuesday (his class was cancelled) because I wanted to see him and since I was right by where he lives I thought hey, perfect!- I hardly see my best friend anymore and it was her birthday!)

I needed to leave to be there on time, I didn't want them to wait for me to sing happy birthday! I never see her as it is.

We then started arguing because he said I wasn't being nice and that "I" was being selfish. He did not like the fact that I said, "No im sorry, but I should start leaving now." <--- What is wrong with that? Im so lost. He said we could have done something in those 10 minutes before I needed to leave and he said I should want to be late for him.

I'm sorry, but I am not a peice of meat! He was just mad because I said no and he was wanting it the whole time I was there, but he left it for the last minute.
He knew I needed to leave! Am I wrong here? I did not have sex with him by the way.. I left and 3 hours later, after I got back from my best friend's house, he called me and continued the argument! He was making me feel guilty because I said no! He is so stubborn all the time. I hate drama. I Don't know what to do... we hung up mad at each other because I couldn't take it anymore. It was like trying to get through to a wall. This is like this every argument. He makes something so small into something BIG or nothing into something. He looveess arguing... its like every single thing I say can never be right. It's my opinion! Why can't I be right at least sometimes? I could say the most simple thing and he will come back and said No... Its not that, its this. He has a thick skull.

I'm sorry for my rant.. I am just really upset because I don't know what to do about his stubborness and him making me feel like I am wrong all the time (Like when I said no to sex).