I don't want you to yell at me if he turns out to be a creep, but hey you have the same thing, wouldn't you want to be accepted? I think he is following the advice of his T or friend by being so forth coming, to get that out of the way and if it didn't bother you that's great. Rather then meet and both of you feel awkward. I say give him a chance who knows he may be a keeper, but don't get mad at me if he turns out to be too creepy