Also I forgot to mention this but I am bisexual and the girl I had an issue with was also a date. I guess I just can't date right now. And as far as weapons go I am uncomfortable even in my house without them (it's got a lot to do with how I was raised, my granfather and father were policement and believe in keeping weapons for protection if you live alone which I do) but I'm going to only hang out with people I feel I can trust and I've started telling them that I carry, what I carry and where just in case and to give them the opportunity to not hang out with me if they aren't comfortable. It's hard to make myself even that vulnerable but I don't want to hurt anyone.