Yes, I know that woman. Well, the type.

If you've got the energy for it, turning the tables on people like this sometimes chases them off. Ask her about herself, ask her for her life story beginning with where she was born and leaving nothing out. These folks what to know all about you but often are very secretive about themselves.

You could also be polite but direct and tell her that you're there for classes. After working all day, that's all you have energy for. Maybe she could organize a post-graduation get-acquainted picnic?

Seriously, indigo ... Your fear is what she's most likely to pick up on. Being assertive with her, either asking her questions about herself or saying directly, "I've worked with people all day--nothing personal, but I need my energy for class," is what will keep her from speculating about you. Don't act as if you're trying to get away from her--tell her to give you your space, in whatever words you choose.

She's basically a gossip, and it was Gossip Girl who zeroed in on me. As soon as I started quizzing her back, she left me alone and found someone else to examine and spin tales about. They seem scary, but they scare pretty easily if you focus on them.

You can do this. Any bipolar determined enough to work full time and continue her education is a strong woman--so look her square in the eyes with the attitude of, "Go away! You bother me!"

Hang in there and ace them classes!
Roadie