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Originally Posted by gibbymommy
I really don't know if he means it or not. He always says it when he is packed up and going out the door. He says I just don't give the situation time. I push him too hard but in my opinion 3 days is not pushing. I have waited two days before calling a few times and he said I just don't get that men go into "caves" (he read that on the internet) and I need to give him space.
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I'm so sorry you're feeling this way again. But in my opinion it's a crock. If something 'happened' to him, I fully believe his company would notify you. He is just trying to control you....and he seems to be achieving this goal.
Don't call...go for a walk. Go out to lunch / dinner. Go find a dog to pet or a friend (like on here) to rant at. But don't call.
He's done this before, he has a history. Like I said in your earlier post...use this time to prepare for the time he makes good on his threats. In the mean time...much like a spoiled child, he expects you to react the way you always have (thus demeaning you in his eyes...sorry) so DON'T DO IT.
