Hello Canders. I hope things get better for you soon. It is okay to feel for your room mate. It takes a very good person to want to care for someone else. You do not have to feel alone, you can post here anytime. There are others here that really appreciate your insight and advice. I hope you feel better soon, and if you need help you know that you can call your therapist and Dr if things get too hard to handle by yourself. Take care Soidhonia