Recently, someone I've been obsessed with for three years finally moved on. I lost my job within days of this happening. I've not been able to accomplish much, I'll go days without brushing my teeth, I'm eating badly, I do nothing all day. This has been going on for months. I'm isolated most of the time and going broke. Any suggestion on how to move on? I'm scared that from now on I will compare every possible love interest to the one that abandoned me for another.. I'm scared I will never meet any other person as smart and precious and perfect in my eyes. It's not fair to myself or any one in my future. I don't feel as if there's another out there for me. I need to realize he does not feel the same for me, but I've such the strongest most intense feeling for years about him. Never wavering.
Will I ever get over this? He is so happy and I'm dead inside.
I've struggled with depression and social anxiety since my teens, this has been a horrible trigger for me and I feel little reason to leave my bed let alone my home.
Any similar cases out there?