I'll get right to the point, the wife and I have been together for around 10 years, married for 8, we have a 5 year old son who means the whole world to me. She and I have slept in separate beds since he was born and sex may happen once every two weeks or so, the problem is, she doesn't enjoy sex, doesn't like kissing at all and is never into it at all. I on the other hand, like any healthy strong 37 year old man could go for it around 3 or 4 times a day, I have great stamina, love to kiss and I'm a very passionate person. I have a professional job in an office setting and always conduct myself in just that way, even though I don't have any women that work for me I have found that when around attractive women my mouth starts watering and my pheromones start pumpin, kind of animalistic in a sense. I fantasize all through the day and have started sort of curiously exploring the local sex sites, I haven't engaged in anything like that but boy is it tempting, I'm really starting to feel the pressure, it's a very lonely feeling being a married man and having these thoughts and desires. I know that if I were to go through with something like this I could loose everything (That would mean my son) I'm torn and I've caught myself getting real frustrated lately. What I need for you guys and gals to do is talk me out of this and shoot me some advise.
P.S. I've had endless talks to her about my sexual unhappiness but I will not subject my son to a broken home like I grew up in so this is a tough one. Thanks in advance.