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Default Oct 31, 2013 at 07:48 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Sometimes psychotic View Post
I'm honestly not sure if his son can be brought along its pretty early in the relationship for that....few weeks and he seems very protective of him. All the advice on meeting kids I've read says wait a few months or it's not fair to the kid.
True, about waiting on meeting kids. I wouldn't want to introduce, anyone to my kids, lest I felt confident, it was for the long haul. Don't want to dangle a metamorphic carrot, in front of my sons faces, so to speak.

I am honestly, baffled, as to why he's not trying harder, to have face to face communication with you. A few weeks, can mean a few dates, I'd presume, and I feel that wanting to get to know him better, is a fair and reasonable trade off, for the opportunity to kiss you.

If he cannot do dinner, because he has dinners with his son, what other options are there, and why is it up to you, to try and coax him, into how to 'date' a woman? If that makes sense?
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