You want me to talk you out of it? Okay... If you cheat on your wife (who has been loyal to both you, and tour son), you'll have wasted a decade of her life, and yours. Is it still worth it? If so, let me continue; your son's childhood would be dramatically changed, because his father refused to use his head, (and his hand).

So lets say you decide to have an affair, do you think you'd be able to lie, and cheat on your wife without feeling guilty about it? I bet not. And so, it would make your life worse than it is right now.

I will commend you a bit for coming to this board, and seeking help, and suggestions before actually cheating on your spouse. So for that I will say good job, Sir.