I thought I had a really close {loving{ friendship/relationship with this guy that has been there for me and my kids before I got my life flipped around from an accident and now have diagnosis after diagnosis. A lot of mental diagnosis and physical trauma.

Yesterday he said some things that I took as emotional abuse(maybe because I am VERY fragile)He told me that I have thin skin, I am my worst enemy, and that I he is just infatuated in me???? I would think after so long that infatuation would turn into love or caring? I am so angry that I wasted so much time with him for disappointment and my kids are like what's going on?

How can someone be infatuated and be so insensitive after so many years? Is it because he knew he was my only help financially or just turning into control?

And to top it off my husband passed away 10years ago on November 3