Suzy, I know you didn't direct that at me. The book that mouse mentioned talks about how birthmoms abandon their children -- over and over and over again. I was just begging to differ, but obviously, my experience is different from an adoptee's. All I can say is, my son has had a terrific life. I'm very happy for that! I just wish mine hadn't been obliterated in the process.

I'm happy to talk to anybody on the subject if you want to PM.

Candy