I love him...I really do! Enough to put an end to the fighting & learn to forgive him, me & the past. He holds on to the past too but says that he doesn't. A lot of him not doing things for me is from the past hurts.
I'm going to get therapy for my pains. I asked him to go with me but he said he doesn't want to & that I'm the one with the problem. Is my self worth low? I'm very sensitive & come from a background of emotional & mental abuse from my mom & grandmother.
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Originally Posted by Rose76
It sounds like you are yearning for him to be a different kind of person from who he is.
It can be so hard to find someone who is the kind of person that we would like to be with. Waiting for that seems to take forever. So along comes someone who appeals to us a lot. There is a lot we share with that person. We get involved, hoping that eventually we will get on the same page about important things together. Most likely, that never happens.
That's life. It's awful hard to accept. Been there myself . . . even still there. It probably won't change . . . ever. That's awful hard to face.
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