I know & I could just kick myself for making him feel bad! I was angry bc he didn't want to come with me to look for the apt., he didn't sign the lease with me etc. I was angry at him bc he broke our bond. This apt meant everything to me bc it is our first & bc he was working as an otr truck driver & had been living in his truck for over 9 months! I was living with my mom at the time & had just moved from Brooklyn. There wasn't room for him there & my mom isn't too fond of him bc they have clashed in the past. I thought he would be more enthusiastic about our first apt!
I've forgiven him for the action even thought my mind & heart hasn't forgotten. I am going to therapy for my healing process & my son's sake.
My son is a happy kid & doesn't see us fight. I make sure that he doesn't see me cry or depressed. I just hold it in until his bedtime or go to the bathroom when he's awake.
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Originally Posted by Lonely_90
One person can only take so much, take it from a person who is constantly told to leave, yet I stay. Im not saying you cannot save your relationship, I am just saying he is only doing what you have told him to do over and over and over each time breaking him down more and more until he got the courage to do it.
If he says he dose not have a problem, anyone with enough hate in them to send you pictures like that has a problem, I agree you both need to get into therapy, and its a good idea to get your son in as well.
You can work this out if you really want to , but you have to want to change and not push him away when you are upset, you are damaging him as well as yourself and son.
best luck ( dont mean to sound harsh )
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