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If my T ever reciprocated my feelings for him it would complicate my life and turn it upside down. As much as I want him to feel for me the way I feel for him I know it would be the worst thing ever. When I get a glimpse of him outside of therapy my heart drops.....I hate how I feel....so painful.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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