I'm not saying we had zero eye contact just not enough for me to get used to he looked really intense when he was going to kiss me and I ended up pulling away. But to answer your question we were sitting side by side on the couch sort of slumped down and we started holding hands----good so far right---so he started basically running his hand up and down my arm so I would calm down and then making little circles on my wrist. His head was resting on my shoulder so he could still see the movie. Then very quickly he sort of tickled my stomach then he started working that area----next thing I know we're at third then second but without kissing first. It was that stupid arm massage thing it felt really good and I just wasn't thinking at all. I really enjoyed it but I also feel stupid now. So yeah I chalk it up to masterful and my general lack of experience.