Hello.Thank you so much for your reply to my post-I hope I worded that right!I am also drinking a little to cope with my problems.The only reason im not out-of-control is because my father was a major alcoholic and died of cirrohsis in 2000 at only 50 years old.I take special interest in your reply and think we have alot in common.If youd like to chat,please email me at sarahbethm@hotmail.com.Again,thank you so much for taking time out of your day to care for a stranger. Sarah