I would search for a licensed psychologist who specializes in treating eating disorders. Psychologists practice forms of therapy such as CBT-cognitive behavioral therapy which are proven successful at treating eating disorders. My T is a psychologist and has a PhD so I know she knows her stuff. She is not specialized in ED's but was still willing to work with me after diagnosing me with atypical anorexia a couple weeks ago. She is working on my treatment plan and consulting with my doctor and dietitian to form a treatment team. I feel like she is very organized and helps me to come up with therapy goals and it sounds like you need to find someone who can do the same for you.