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Originally Posted by Shellsh0cked
)...is that she copes by "validation". When she can validate a feeling she has with fact (or something similar)
So it's all part of the "validation" thing I guess...to make sense of something that makes no sense?
Anyone wanna punch some holes in that theory...that's all it is...  |
Sounds like trying to rationalize her irrational thinking with facts. Validation, is just saying, yes, what you feel is valid, because it's your feelings.
BPD or What? Ever investigated histrionic personality disorder or any of the others?
How long, have the two of you, been without contact? And, yes, it is disturbing to be accused of having something for your lovers parent, at the same time, is that really what ended things, and why so focused on that, at this point in time?
I wonder, if you aren't bringing out, all the BPD's on this thread, because the undercurrent seems to be more a vilification of this woman, as a jilted lover? {disclaimer, I don't have BPD, was the NON, in a BPD relationship, which resulted in having children}