Sorry I didn't reply so quickly, but he is having anger outbursts today (slamming things, screaming), so I was reminded...

He is 25, he works full time, same place for 7 years now. He lost some overtime hours over a year ago when the extreme outbursts started to get worse, but that's about it as far as changes. I wonder if it is mental illness "coming out", if you will...

He has always drank socially, but his drinking has increased in the last year or so as well. That makes me think the drinking stems from something else.

As I mentioned, he attributes a lot of his issues to problems like not getting paid enough, yet he doesn't do anything to improve the situation, so for me, it gets old, because that is what I do, take action, when I'm not happy with things.

He didn't like how I talked to him this morning, so he blamed me again for upsetting him and started screaming and throwing/pushing things around.

I don't want the neighbors to hear his outbursts, so embarrassing...