Hi there
what do you do,when you find yourself waking up in them mornings (if you slept), thinking if the situation will not change I do not know how long I will be able to hold myself in one piece.I have tried to talk to my husband for years,explain my point of view,my feelings,need to share with each other....but it ends up being eventually my mistake,my misunderstanding,my misbehavior .And I am not talking about only major situations in life..we are in the same profession and work together, I have taken the role of employee,just because there are no 2 bosses,with all due respect to him and his ability to boss and take care of business,I am the one who works at nights and days(apparently men can't go without sleep).It hurt and leaves tiny scars when he constantly mentions things like "You just do not get it how to talk,you just don't know how to behave(meaning distance myself from employees),16 years and you didn't get not to talk to me when I am in front of computer or busy.'".But he is either busy,or tired or his parents are in the room. Where do I fit?I can't keep the happy confident spoiled girl show running .I am tired and found myself wanting to live only long enough to have my kids settled,then whatever....I am not planning to Do anything,trust me). I hurt because I am too young to think that..So I am on my last resort here.What do I do guys?