I feel going out of your marriage again would be so hurtful not only to him but to you. Please don't do it!

Sex is a part of being in a relationship and it sounds to me like sitting down (not as pillow talk) and having a very frank discussion about your needs is important. Men suck at picking up on hints so I would come out and tell him you love him and the sex you have is great but that you'd like more variety. Explain your desires and if he's hesitant, try to nudge him in slowly. Suggest maybe at first he pull your hair or smack your booty or something. Try asking him to go shopping with you for a toy to use. Honesty is important.

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