I try not to compare lives or others. Struggles and problems can't be compared... and if you must compare them then compare them by the effect they leave, not that reason they came to be.

Apples and oranges. That doesn't mean of corse that one can't relate to others because relating to others is a very important thing!
Sometimes, I think if only they could be me for an hour and I could be them then we can understand how each others brains work. But we can't
I think that life is life, can't compare