I hope things are getting better for you.

The person who triggers me is my mother-in-law. Even hearing her name sets me off. Not fun at all. She is not a good woman and constantly hurts me but I am the one over-reacting... She has told my husband that if he is still with me when she dies that he is written out of her will. She has offered him money to divorce me. She tries to pit my son against me (I want to take you to Disney but your mommy won't let me). It goes on and on, yet my husband at times still blames me for not trying to get along with her. I tried, I tried for 13 years before giving up. I truly believe she has some sort of diagnosed mental illness.