Hello All,

This might seems a little private but I have completely run out of opinions and options. So, to get to the point, my boyfriend (26) and I (20) are not having sex like we used to. Not at all like we used to. We used to have sex almost every night but since I moved into the same city as him last December, that has completely changed. Now, we only have sex about once every 2 months. We are both young, healthy, decently attractive individuals that share many things together. I am starting to really question if I want to continue in this relationship. I am begging for some help and not just the answer "leave him". He says, when I talk to him about it, that he is tired, or that I ask for it to much and it turns him off. I am losing my mind trying to figure out why he refuses to have sex with me. This may seem like a ridiculous thing to be upset about but it is making me incredibly sad, angry, resentful, and has effected by schoolwork, my eating habits, my job, and my behavior/attitude in general. I. DO. NOT. KNOW. WHAT. I AM DOING WRONG! Please, anyone, help me understand. Feel free to ask any questions, I am completely open! I need help before I do something I may regret. I am so confused and hurt.

UCBearcat18