I have struggled with this very same problem and i think perna is right about baby steps...we have to let it happen and not try to make it happen, ya know?

My T says it took years for me to get to this stage of numbness and its not going to get better right away. we just have to stay with it and do the work so we can heal.

Don't give up... it will happen for you when the time is right. Good Luck.. Faith