Well, I can sort of sympathize with your husband. Not to say that your problem isn't valid, as it very well is. But for me, I come from a poor family, and sometimes a family member has no where else to go. So you have to take them in. That's just how it is, and I get used to it. But yeah, if she seriously has a house of her own, that isn't like a death shack, than there's no real excuses...