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Old Jan 12, 2007, 01:28 PM
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lol Rhapsody - men are a different gender, not species (but I know what you were getting at! )

Razeljenny, is there some reason you suspect that your significant other might get annoyed by what you believe? How close are you? REGARDLESS of gender (because you can walk on eggshells about certain topics with certain women as well, if you know that they are easily irrirated by them), has he hinted at irritation of the subject in the past, or is he generally open-minded?

Without knowing the answers to those questions, I do have an immediate opinion, and that is if what you believe is strong in your heart, then voicing them to your sweetie is a good way to check your compatibility.

Let your beliefs be your filter; not how you communicate them.

If someone I date is going to be annoyed or fight because he won't accept me for who I am and what I believe, then I'd want to know that sooner rather than later. Allowing yourself to walk on eggshells just builds up resentment, which becomes an ugly monster later on.
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