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Originally Posted by Lonely_90
No one EVER deserves to be cheated on. It should not be accepted, and you should not blame yourself and say " OK I UNDERSTAND" and you should NEVER thank her for doing this, it is damaging, and allthough you might have done wrong and not give her the attention she feels she deserves, the fact that she slept with another man, in your home, is just way out of line.
you both need to get into couceling and figure out what is going on here. you did not make her do it, she chose to lay in another mans arms.
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I agree with this.
OP cheating should never be an acceptable way to handle problems in a relationship. She could have left, told you of her dissatisfaction.
Counseling is certainly an option if you feel the relationship is worth saving and so does she, but remember her choices aren't your fault.