has anyone ever successfully live with roommates before? how were you able to be able to? did your roommate know of you having more than just your present self around?
how did you tell them if u did?

were any of ur close friends, also your roommate?

i really miss my best friend and we see her like a sister too. but one within us did things to push her away, and we had to leave instead of trying to explain what really was going on in my system... my bestfriend now knows the jists of it.
i want to see if she wants to be roomates again, but i would be asking her to move into this state(one state away from where she grew up. but she and her immediate family are in a state almost 1,000 miles away from here... so before i even ask if thats something she would want too. i want to be sure that i wont screw up this time. and i dont want any chance of me repeating the past. we also fear that the pattern our own family has always done will somehow play through us. and we dont want that either.. our family reels us in, then once we are far from anyone else, they treat us like dirt and leave us fending for ourselves and being isolated. i dont want to be like that. how do i make sure that it wont happen?

how do others live with roommates and having others in the system? the ones in me are pretty skiddish and hide away and wont even speak to me when we arent in private. well usually thats how it is. our home has became a safe place with rules (in a sense). they can come out, not worry about anyone one being around or walking in on us or something like that (cant think of the exact wording that would make that more accurately stated). and the rules are pretty much, they let me stay around to observe (usually they dont tho lol i am thinking its not on purpose tho, its just a lack of knowledge on how to do that when its not just happening on its own). and to not go near the door, and no cooking. and other rules but helps the others feel secure and safe enough to come to the surface.

is there a way?

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