I also am working on massive weight loss,have lost 20kgs so far and have another 50 or so to go.(charmed I'm sure,lol)but I know without a doubt that is going to help my self confidence,which over the years I have built up,and especially my dad use to help(died when I was 18,bugger it).I have no idea why but my self esteem was extremely low,of course weight doesnt help either.I want to start liking myself,people do,but it's also a battle to beat the low self esteem,but it's going to happen and I figure if you like yourself,life will be so much easier,we have to live 24/7 with ourselves so may as well enjoy our own company eh.