Thanks curley and bugeaud my mom has actually stayed with us and he couldn't handle it so he knows. Also I suggested we go to our church for advice he said no because he knows they would also say its not right. And by all means if she had nowhere to go I would be ok with it. But she does live with his other brother and she chooses just to stay here. I dont know how to continue handling this except to maybe go stay with a friend if she doesn't leave. I do believe I have been fair and feel I am more important. Thanks guys.