I think that in any relationship there needs to be special time set aside for just the 2 of you. In many cases, getting away for a whole weekend is not possible.

I think too that there needs to be a dialog between you and your lady about what you can both do together for that "special" time. Maybe making a "date" night or day each week and planning what you will do, together, will get things moving. It will give you both something to look forward to each week after working hard and taking care of your families.

I wish you both luck and love!

Hugssssssss
Jean