she asked me if there was ever a time that I had burned my finger tips and after a silence I told her when I was younger I use to burn my finger tips ,silence ,she asked how and I said on a radiator .she strongly in boot camp T style said that radiators don't burn fingers, I said they do if they have hot water running through them. AND THEY DO. she again sternly asked how else and I said on the stove top. she then said did you do that or some one else .I said some one else and stopped the conversation .i didn't want to argue with her anymore I was devastated.