Hello feralkittymom-Thank you so much for your words. I felt like I was losing my mind with his personality swings because he would typically insist that I was imagining the changes-even though they were so blatant-and that my imagination came from the abuse in my past, not what he was doing. And then sometimes he would admit that he was acting differently around me because he was struggling with being in a therapy relationship with me and that we weren't together as a couple. Other times he would forget that he had made this admission. I kept saying to myself-a mental health professional would never act this way-it MUST be that I am losing my mind. I am clearly still trying to work through this. I appreciate your response. I am glad that you found a skillful and stable therapist to be helpful for you. I wish you all the best.

Hello CantExplain-Thank you for your response. It sounds like you have had mixed results. If you are in therapy now I hope you are having a helpful experience.