What is it that you don't like about yourself? Please make a list so that we can determine what can be improved or (even a little bit) modified to make your life more bearable.

Our dreams do not define us. Rather, our actions define us. These dreams sound more like goals. However, when setting goals, you also have to determine HOW you are going to achieve them. In other words, having goals are useless unless you have plans on how to make them come about.