I am a heterosexual female and I feel your pain I am not working right now but for years I worked in the banking field and I had a problem with alot of the women.I am very quite and keep to myself and I wonder if that makes people uncomfortable ? sometimes they act like you think your better,when you are just working and keeping your business to yourself!
Not sure if this is part of your personality but that is what mine would stem from and I would have to go on leave of absence due to harassment sometimes. its horrible I hope you find a decent workplace where you can have a career.